There is a time in every relationship when the L word hovers in the air. As Woody Allan put it in his movie, Everybody says I love you. But do you, really?

I personally just love to be adored. There is no greater feeling than when a nice man is waiting to fulfill your every wish, brings flowers unexpectedly and smiles every time he looks at you. You, like every smart girl, know at that point that you have him. You can be periodically nasty and he'll forgive you without a blink, you can have a bad hair day accompanied by old sweatshirt and no makeup, and he'll still want to take you out.

He's on the verge of becoming your personal slave, so don't spoil it by telling him I love you first. A better way to go is to let him suffer a bit more, finding the right time to tell you he's really into you. This way you extend the adornment period, enjoying

Waiting for the words to come out of him can be tricky, but you have time to think about what your reaction is going to be. If the thought of it makes you LOL, don't torture the poor boy no more, let him off the hook and find a more lovable fish. If, on the other hand you feel the love, think of a phrase you'll say back. Not really sure? Then simply say: Wow, that's nice. Can you tell me why? Listen to the answer, it'll help you make your mind.

If you just can't help yourself, or the man you're dating is shy but shows every sign of love, give it to him. Try to make it special, memorable. If you decide in advance when to reveal your love, plan a special evening around it. Such relationship milestones warrant celebration. Read the rest of the tutorial here.

By the way, I found a hilarious love poem site, where you can make your own love poetry by online generators.