There is no greater accessory to enhance one girl's beauty than a smile. A big, wide, ear to ear smile can work wonders even with the toughest souls, and get you places where Prada handbag or Gucci shoes won't.

But it's very difficult to smile sometimes, whether the winter's blues or your loved one is giving you trouble. Some of our problems may seem so big to us, and they can be overwhelming. One of he things to do is to give in to the blues and let yourself time to heal.

The other way to go is to tell your troubles to someone. If your girlfriends just wouldn't understand you, your mother is too old-fashioned and your cat has had enough, get the load off and write to E. Jean over at Elle.

I just love reading how she handles every day reader's problems, while making them laugh too. Her advices are always sane and reasonable, but from a trendy girl's point of view. From the latest issue:

Q: I know I'm behind the times, but here goes. I'm a 27-year-old Latina, and I've been wondering if I should get a Brazilian wax. Does it hurt? Do they really use hot wax? Will my man like it? Will it kill me? I don't know who else to ask.

A: I'm the world's greatest living expert on the Brazilian, so thank gawd you wrote to me. My shucking occurred at the hands of a burly Ukrainianna in a dazzling depilatory on the second floor of E. Arden. Ten seconds after the first rip, I staggered out to Fifth Avenue and tried to throw myself in front of a bus. I just wanted to end the pain...If you need something to cheer you up, browse through the E. Jean archives, LOLs (as well as ROTFLs) are guaranteed.